Read Your Crowd

Conversely, the other night's gig was sorta sad. The band leader, a formidable jazz singer and earnest-enough drummer, also served as the sound guy, emcee, event planner and music director (doh!). He also didn't really gauge the crowd. This is very key at any party: Read your crowd!. 

He started out the night playing the usual mellow dinner music standards and instrumentals, and after the dinner ended, he kept playing the same kinda mellow dinner music standards and instrumentals (doh again!). They are ready to rock now, dude! Time to play something UP. Thrill the crowd. Even dare to play something upbeat during the dinner set! Just know when to back off the slow-tempo and mid-swing thing (classic mistake of playing what you love versus what they want to hear).

Of course, there were two older couples on the floor this whole time, but the young peeps (the majority of the guests) were at the bar...

That is, until we played DANCING QUEEN three hours into the night. I know, this is a cliche and so pre-fab, but guys, it works. The familiarity of it, the recent ABBA revival, and the just...girliness...of the tune gets people going. And, when the chicks wanna dance, guess what the guys wanna do?

So, I said to the band leader: "Hey Leader, they seem to really like pop, disco and uptempo rock!" So, what does he play? He plays Fly Me To The Friggin' Moon! Now, Fly Me is a great song, a classic. But, this crowd wanted to PARTY, to blow off steam from a stressful day that wasn't going well (we were told the wedding was wrought with problems). So, give these 20-somethings some r&b, some rock, some pop, give them their "Let's Get Loud," their "Crazy For You," their "I Will Survive" (another sure thing). Give them whatever they need to bring some energy to this partalia!

So finally! All of us in the band are insisting he call some current hits and thankfully he listens. Okay! We're rocking it on some groovy Pink number, and all the kids come racing to the floor, and I'm all - Yes! Now, we're cooking! And then what happens? The bandmaster-sound-guy-drummer-crooner's PA system goes wonky and suddenly, shoooooooo...we blow a fuse.

20 minutes of silence...

At this point, we have a bride in tears. She's already had a stressful day and just when her wedding started becoming modestly enjoyable for her, the music dies! Seeing this, I frantically get into the crowd, start clapping my hands in time like a wild hyena and scream: "LINE DANCE!!!!" 


Ay yi yi.

Thank GOD the sound eventually came back and we ended the night, five hours later, with the dance floor full. But, ugh, such an odyssey and what a great example of why it's important to read your crowd and play what they want to hear. In the clubs, when we're playing originals, artistic liberties are all ours in my opinion, but at a party where you are hired, please just make 'em happy!